By DAVE DOMESCIK | Staff Writer
PELHAM
– The Pelham Senior Center turned its monthly potluck luncheon into something far deeper than a shared meal this May. In the spirit of Memorial Day, residents gathered not only to enjoy home-cooked dishes but to reflect together on the sacrifices made by the men and women of the U.S. Armed Forces.
The centerpiece of the afternoon was a moving presentation by Rep. Kenneth Paschal, who spoke to the significance of the Missing Man Table—a solemn tradition honoring those who never returned home from war. His words invited attendees to pause, remember and reflect on the cost of freedom.
Held monthly, the potluck is a staple event at the Senior Center. According to Katie Augsburger, the center’s supervisor, this installment was particularly designed with intentionality and heart.
“For May, we wanted to do something meaningful that aligned with the spirit of Memorial Day,” she said. “It felt important to not just gather for food and fellowship, but to also take time to reflect and honor the sacrifices of our military service members.”
That intention shaped the tone of the day. As people filled their plates and shared stories, moments of laughter were paired with moments of reverent silence.
“The atmosphere was warm, heartfelt and respectful,” Augsburger said. “The combination of home-cooked dishes and the deep symbolism of the Missing Man Table created a unique space where memories were shared and gratitude was expressed.”
For many attendees, Memorial Day isn’t just a national holiday—it’s personal. Some served in the military themselves. Others have spouses, siblings or friends who wore the uniform. For all, the luncheon offered more than just a meal. It offered connection.
“Coming together as a community gives people a chance to share those personal ties, to find comfort in each other and to pass along the importance of remembrance,” Augsburger said. “It reminds us we’re not alone in carrying these stories forward.”
As much as the event honored the past, it also celebrated the present strength of the senior center community. That balance of reflection and fellowship is exactly what the center strives to cultivate, especially during moments of national remembrance.
“I hope attendees left with a renewed sense of connection—to the history we honor, to each other and to the value of community,” Augsburger said. “Events like this remind us that while we may come together for a specific reason, what we build—compassion, respect and unity—extends far beyond one holiday.”
